I thought that folks might like to keep an eye on how this case is settled. I'm thinking most Pennsic ceremonies use non-congregational officiants, so this could be a problem.
abclocal.go.com/wpvi/story
abclocal.go.com/wpvi/story
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Thu, March 20, 2008 - 6:53 AMvery very interesting.... -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Thu, March 20, 2008 - 8:32 AMThat's some serious BS. A pair of my friends where married buy another friend that is ordained in the church of universal life (as am I). The ceremony was great here it is in it's entirity.
Priest: Do you?
groom: Sure
Bride: Why not?
Priest: you may kiss the bride.
Best wedding ever!! -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Sun, March 23, 2008 - 12:39 AMFrom the article:
"Since the judge's decision, registers of wills across Pennsylvania have been warning people applying for marriage licenses that their unions may be void if they are solemnized by 'itinerant ministers'."
Oh, for frell's sake. Don't these theocratic idiots remember that even their beloved Jesus was an "itinerant preacher"?
*fume* -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Mon, March 24, 2008 - 8:09 AMlots of peoples are in love with power... they usually make judgment calls...
...they forget... that this is not what it is about...
love thy neighbor... this is central...to all good beliefs...
if you want to make a change in your neighbor or neighborhood... just set a good example...
show how being a nurturing force can make everyones life beautiful...
just...be... good,
actually you just have to try... thats all
...be a part of someones good day, not part of someones bad day...
: ) -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Mon, March 24, 2008 - 12:36 PMAbsolutely! Who was it that said, "Be the change you want to see"?
Certainly that's better than attempting to force change on others. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Wed, April 2, 2008 - 8:06 AMI actually bought a card with that saying "be the change you wish to see in the world..." and it was Ghandi
-
-
-
-
-
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Thu, March 20, 2008 - 9:55 AMIn any case, it can't hurt for the officiant to call in advance to make sure his credentials are accepted. That's what our congregation-free friend did (in PA, few years back): He called the courthouse, to make sure he would be OK. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Thu, March 20, 2008 - 11:56 AMWhat's next, only marriages officiated by clergy of "approved" religions? Approved by whom? This borders dangerously close to establishing a "state" religion. This Judge had better pull her head out of her A%% and delve back into the Constitution. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Fri, March 21, 2008 - 9:18 AMEverything is arbitrary. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Fri, March 21, 2008 - 12:23 PMi guess some people are not married to the idea... : ) -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Tue, March 25, 2008 - 7:22 AMI think this only *potentially* affects the status of wills, and only in PA, if I'm reading this correctly. You can always do the wedding you want, and then have a marrige liscense done ay the court after the fact.
-
-
-
-
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Sat, March 29, 2008 - 1:23 PMThanks for this notice.
Since I am suppose to officiate several marriages this coming Pensic, I will have to call the county Clerks office and see if this will cause any problems.
Devlyn
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Tue, April 1, 2008 - 10:39 AMThe solution for those who wish to have a ceremony at Pennsic is extremely simple. Get legally married in your State of Residence at your local courthouse. Then you can have your "official ceremony" wherever the heck you want, however the heck you want, and BY whoever the heck you want.
Why does everyone feel the need to make something relatively simple so complicated? You avoid any potential legal problems by nipping them in the bud. Many states have residency requirements for marriages to be legally performed within their jurisdictions.
No disrespect of any of you officiating folks, but I can get "ordained" online by paying a fee and sending off for a certificate, and so can anyone else. It sounds as though the State is questioning the validity of certain types of "officiating entities" as reguarding the proper filing of paperwork. In other words... someone didn't get their fee. Either for the registration of the official with the State, or the license office. The ACLU is famous for making mountains out of molehills. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Tue, April 1, 2008 - 11:14 AM"The ACLU is famous for making mountains out of molehills. "
Sure, because having someone invalidate your marriage after you've already been married for several months or even **thirty years** just because the priest or minister didn't have an actual congregation at the time is just a tiny little molehill, no big deal.... NOT!
Also, the last time I checked, the Jesuits weren't ordaining priests online. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Tue, April 1, 2008 - 12:14 PM*eyeroll* I didn't say that invalidating someones marriage was okay. I find it rather odd that the state would go to those lengths. But then again, I find a lot of things done by states to be rather ridiculous. Like thinking not selling beer on Sundays will stop people from drinking on "the Lords Day". As if.
And no, obviously a Jesuit wouldn't be getting their accreditation online, don't be ridiculous. However, the question remains as to whether the proper paperwork was filed AND the appropriate palms greased. That's the way government has always worked, and the way it will always work, no matter who holds the reins of power. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Tue, April 1, 2008 - 1:05 PMSome states all you have to do is say you are married on one document like a loan and in the eyes of the state you are married. So, it could be worse. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Tue, April 1, 2008 - 2:04 PMThis is true. The state of Texas recognizes "common law marriage", or at least did 25 years ago. All you had to do was to present yourselves as a married couple and it was so.
Of course it played havoc with the legal system when people who were common law married decided to get divorced and wanted legal recognition for things like alimony and property. But, it gets worked out eventually.
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Thu, April 3, 2008 - 5:51 AMWe used to have that in PA too, but they threw it out a few years ago.
-
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Wed, April 2, 2008 - 12:52 PM"But then again, I find a lot of things done by states to be rather ridiculous."
You and me both. And sometimes, even 'ridiculous' doesn't begin to cover it.
"Like thinking not selling beer on Sundays will stop people from drinking on "the Lords Day". As if."
Indeed. I want a beer, I'm going to have a beer. I don't care what day it is; why should anyone else?
"However, the question remains as to whether the proper paperwork was filed AND the appropriate palms greased."
Now there's the point, though. It shouldn't have to do with "greasing palms"; however, I don't have a problem with wedding officiants having to register with the states they're planning to perform marriages in. In fact, I think in Ohio you do have to be registered to perform marriages; merely being an "ordained minister" is not enough. Then again, I'd be even happier if the US would do as the UK does and separate religious marriage from civil marriage altogether, thereby removing any illusion that organized religion has any right to define civil marriage. But that's a whole other can of worms for an entirely different discussion.
I will say this, though: the ACLU isn't doing anything wrong here. *Somebody* had to make a stink about this in order to get it rectified. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Wed, April 2, 2008 - 1:11 PMI think that's probably at the root of this particular suit. Whether or not the officiants are "licensed" to conduct cerimonies in that particular state. From what I'd noticed in PA, they fee and tax practically everdayumthang. I mean the state runs all the package stores for cryin' out loud!
If that's not a classic example of the gubmint having their hands in everyone's pockets I don't know what is. That's really what I meant by "greasing palms".... you gotta pay your nickel if you wanna ride.
I have to agree, ironic isn't it that the British have done a better job of keeping Church and State separated than we have.... of course, most of our Forefathers were more or less tossed out of every sane country in Europe for being religious extremists. ; ) Well... except mine, they fled because of Mussolini and a dead end job (literally) in La Cosa Nostra. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Thu, April 3, 2008 - 6:01 AMIn VA they have the Single Civil Celebrants License or something like that. You can register for anyone you choose to deliver the ceremony and pronounce you married. We are having a friend that has a happy marriage and a person we both respect perform our wedding. Still have to pay the gov'ment for the right to be wed but that is to be expected. Atleast we don't have to give money to an orginized religion.
-
-
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Thu, April 3, 2008 - 5:54 AMNowhere in that article does it state that it's about whether the officiant had registered or paid a fee, though. They just state that the officiant must have a regular congregation that they are in charge of. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Thu, April 3, 2008 - 9:05 AMAnd that's what bothers me so much. Not only does it mean not being able to have your uncle who happens to be a retired Methodist minister officiate, or the rabbi from your campus Hillel, **even though these people may well have already been licensed by the state to perform marriages in the past, when they served congregations**, but is Pennsylvania seriously unaware that there are entire religions out there which do not follow the "congregation and minister" model at all? It's almost as if they're saying that only Christians, Jews, Muslims and perhaps Sikhs and Buddhists should be allowed to have weddings in their own faith, and everyone else either needs to have a justice of the peace do it or else they have to have it in a faith not their own.
Which makes this a First Amendment issue, to my mind. Therefore it is indeed a matter of civil liberties being violated. Which is EXACTLY where the ACLU comes in, and rightfully so. That's what they're for. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Thu, April 3, 2008 - 10:02 AMOk Ex wife was the lady of her active coven at the time adn legally performed several handfastings/marriage ceremonies and this was a rule then. A coven constituted a legal congregation in PA. What's the problem?
Don't answer that. I agreethat there are still issues with this law, but I no longer live in Pa, and am no longer married to that lady, and do not foresee needing to be "legally" married again in Pa or elsewhere. -
-
Re: People married at Pennsic or planning to -- PA legal controversy about officiants sans congregations
Thu, April 3, 2008 - 10:28 AMSorry.... I can't help it. I have to answer.
The problem isn't necessarily PA itself, from what I've found and read so far. The problem is, apparently, a judge in one particular county of PA, or possibly judges in two or three counties. This isn't an issue at state level, at least not at this time. It looks like the judge in the story linked to in the OP has chosen an interpretation of PA law that is at odds with 1) the way the law is interpreted at state level and in other counties, and 2) may be at odds with the way the law itself is written.
More research may reveal more details, as I find time.
I'm not planning to get legally married in PA either, of course.
-
-
-
-
-
-